Flashback Friday: Japan 2004...

My girlfriend, Lynne, and I led a group of middle schoolers on a ten day adventure to Japan. It was an exchange with Temecula's Sister City Daisen-Nakayama. What an adventure indeed. 


Our guides were our brave friends, Kozo and Yuko.
We began the trip staying with host families and touring the City. This is a photo with the Mayor at the time, and yes, he is standing up. My high schooler was a head taller than anyone we met. He was definitely visible when in a crowd.
We had hosted many exchange students over the years, but this was our first opportunity to visit them, at their school. Everyone came for an amazing welcoming.
After several days of experiencing life living with a Japanese family, we moved into our hotel in Osaka and spent our remaining time, touring various highlights, and utilizing various means of transportation. The Bullet Train was certainly the coolest.





We even went to the film studio where they had recently filmed The Last Samurai which happened to be shown on our flight home. It was one of those trips whose memories filled two large photo albums, so this is merely a glimpse.
I bring it up now because this week, a delegation from our Sister City is here in Temecula to celebrate the 25th Anniversary of the relationship. We were suppose to host and since we can't,  I am beyond touched that Yuko and Lynne found the time in their über busy itinerary to visit me. We reminisced and for a brief time, I felt a part of the celebration. Next year!

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A Tale of Two Braces...

I have written about my previous brace situation before. At age 14, I was fitted with a full Milwaukee Back Brace for a serious case of Scoliosis.

Two months after getting my dental orthodontia off (worn for 4 ½ years), I was placed in a back brace for the next 2 ½ years.
All through my early adolescence and for 23 hours a day, I was confined. The purpose was to put pressure on the curves in my spine to straighten (or at least prevent from getting worse) my lateral curvature. As you can image, for a young girl, this was pretty tough. I was bullied and made fun of but in my normal style, I did my best and kept those rose-colored glasses on. I knew this was what was the best for me. Believe it or not, I did what I was told all those years ago.
Flashforward 40+ years and I find myself yet in another brace-an Aspen Collar. This time, however, I'm having a much more difficult time with it all. Don't get me wrong, it's not the brace itself. It is the danger of the reason for the brace- my C1 vertebra fracture which is still very present. Though it has healed somewhat, there is still a measurable gap and as Steve has put it, a gap is still a gap, no matter the size.
My scoliosis brace did not stop me from doing anything I wanted to do or go anywhere I wanted to go. I lived my life as freely as any other teenager. I went to dances, school sporting events, amusement parks, and I even learned to drive while wearing it.

My newest acquisition would allow me the same youthful freedoms if we didn't live in fear of the what ifs and the could bes. We are just not prepared to risk "it all" by fully returning to the busy life we led just four months ago.

I'm a firm believer in the adage, What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I believed it all those decades ago and I have to believe it now!

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December in Stamps...

Have you ever loved a place you had yet to visit? The Spellman Museum of Stamps & Postal History is that place for me. 

Each month this amazing museum, located on the campus of Regis College in Weston, MA, shares a calendar composed of "a day in history". The historic events of the month are revealed in a postage stamp depicting the occasion. Check out December 5th- truly a day worth celebrating.

For an amateur philatelist like me, Spellman is the place to be... one day!

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"Other-Wordly"...

Found upon my front porch was this amazing book from my friend, Keri. The inscription reads, "Dear Denise, A little something I hope you find entertaining, especially with your love for words and culture."

Other-Wordly: words both strange and lovely from around the world is book in which to discover words to surprise, delight, and enamor. It is a beautifully illustrated tool from which to learn terms for various things: for the sunlight that filters through the leaves of trees, for dancing awkwardly but with relish (so me), and for the look shared by two people who each wish the other would speak first.
Smultronställe (noun, c. Swedish) lit. "place of wild strawberries": a special place discovered, treasured, returned to for solace and relaxation, a personal idyll free from stress or sadness... hmmm reminds me of Tahoe!
Nemophilist (noun, English) a hunter of the woods; one who loves the forest and its beauty and solitude... hmmm also reminds me of Tahoe!
This entire page holds treasured words for me. I especially like
Gezellig (adjective, Dutch) cozy, nice, inviting, pleasant, comfortable; connoting time spent with loved ones or togetherness after a long separation.

No matter where we are, we will always miss where we cannot be. I don't know if there is a word that sums up that longing yet the words in Other-wordly come pretty close.

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Christmas Creativity...

My sister-in-law is an incredibly talented crafter. We spent the afternoon at their home, celebrating a belated Thanksgiving and delighting in the cheerfulness of her Christmas tree creations. I just had to share.

When completed, each room will have at least one spectacular and truly uniquely decorated tree. Her color choices are fabulous and the ornaments are different for each creation. WOW.
The photos do not do these works of art justice!

This whimsical tea themed one is my favorite.
Adorned with vintage ornaments, along with new ones shaped as desserts, this tree presented itself as a treasure hunt... I never knew what I would discover.


There are at least five more trees awaiting her creativity. I eagerly await the glee of them all.

“The Christmas tree is a symbol of love, not money.
There's a kind of glory to them when they're all lit up
that exceeds anything all the money in the world could buy.”
-Andy Rooney

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Scenes of a Simple Thanksgiving...

We are spending a few days with Steve's mom. We began our holiday delighting in a morning storm, followed by a glorious rainbow.

"Rainbows reminds us that even after the darkest clouds
and the fiercest winds there is still beauty."
-Katrina Mayer

To keep our meal prep easy, we ordered a complete turkey dinner at the local Stater Brothers Grocery store.
We all agreed that the meal was scrumptious with the turkey being some of the best any of us have ever eaten!
The rainy day was spent dining well, enjoying each other's company, watching way too much football, while realizing all we are thankful for. It was a very good day!
“Being thankful is not always experienced as a natural state of existence,
we must work at it, akin to a type of strength training for the heart.”
– Larissa Gomez

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My Broken Neck Follow Up #4...

After a highly anticipated, hopeful three months, I have the results of my CT scan from yesterday after today's appointment with my Orthopedist. Yes, I am still in my brace and will be for the next eight weeks. Not exactly the answer I was hoping for but there it is!

That said, the news is actually good and the doctor was very happy with how well I have progressed. My 5.5 mm break is now at 2.4 mm. He feels that I'm out of the daily fear of paralysis but cautioned that breaks like this don't always heal completely.
So bottom line is we are going to slowly wade back into our life, conservatively making plans. We'll continue to be cautious and thoroughly thankful that things are as good as they are.

I just wanted to share and to tell you how grateful I am for your support and concern. Happiest of Thanksgivings to you and yours!

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My Alphabet Day...

So how about this day of acronyms? I had a CT and an EEG at UCSD. Wild.

Today was the neck imaging that had to occur prior to my Orthopedist appointment tomorrow to determine if my fracture has healed. This was a day of doing prep work, being hopeful and just getting out of the house.
The EEG was just to make certain all is well in the brain department, too. We're covering all my bases.

"There is no medicine like hope,
no incentive so great,
and no tonic so powerful
as expectation of something tomorrow."
-Orison Swett Marden

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Leslie Comes to Play...

For over 38 years, Leslie and I have been wonderful friends and always there for one another.

Knowing that I was broken and I had to stay close to home, she came prepared for simple friend time: thorough catching up, walks around the neighborhood, delicious meals, porch sitting in the sunshine, and even a rousing round of Scrabble.






I'm pretty certain she let me win, too.
There is great comfort in being in the company of old friends. It is something that I am truly grateful for. I am an incredibly lucky girl... and I know it.

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Ellen Has a Hurt Neck Too...

Recently, I learned that one of my favorite people, Ellen DeGeneres, has a neck injury, as well. I have been to several tapings of her show, and once we even danced together (for a brief, magical moment).

She admitted on her talk show that she had “no idea” how she sustained the injury. Ellen said that she spent the morning watching tennis and then the afternoon some bird watching. She joked, “At night, we did hula-hooping on our necks.”

My theory about why her neck hurts? I think she knows I have a neck fracture and is having sympathy pains. That's my theory and I'm sticking with it. I 💙 Ellen.

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Cyndi & Steve Head To Mexico...

Today we had the opportunity to visit with our friends as they migrate South for the winter. I think I might have even caught the scent of pines when we hugged goodbye.

Cyndi and Steve are our second set of friends to whom we had to wish Vaya Con Dios within the last two months! I'm so glad Temecula is on the way to Mexico from South Lake Tahoe.

"El regalo más grande de la vida es la amistad, y yo lo he recibido."
The greatest gift of life is friendship, and I have received it.

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Gratitude: Better Late Than Never

As I've mentioned previously, I'm spending my confinement at home reminiscing with my family's old photos. I wanted to share a letter I wrote to my oldest brother's ex-wife, the mother of his two children. I woke up the other day, compelled to snail mail her. I thought it was worth sharing as a reminder that it is never too late to thank someone.

My Mom & Wendy (her first grandchild) c. 1975
Dear Marcia,

Recently we were able to dig out some old treasured photos. Numerous, amazing photos of your babies were included. I gathered many of them and sent them on to Brett and Wendy.

As a grandma who doesn't get to see her grands nearly enough, I can only imagine what joy those images gave my parents [who lived 3,000 miles away]. You were a thoughtful daughter-in-law, as evidenced by all you sent (complete with dates and names clearly written on the back of each image).

I just wanted you to know how much I appreciated all you shared. I never realized how powerful it was then but I certainly do now.

With gratitude,
           Denise

“What I like about photographs
is that they capture a moment that’s gone forever,
impossible to reproduce.”
– Karl Lagerfeld

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Gloria Steinem Wishes Me Well...

Okay, this has to be one of the most awesome images to wake up to- Gloria Steinem telling me to "Keep Healing!" WOW.

So how did this come to be? In August, pre neck fracture, I had purchased tickets to Ms. Steinem's book launch through my favorite bookstore, Warwick's. For those who are not familiar with her, Gloria Steinem is an acclaimed journalist, trailblazing feminist, and one of the most visible, passionate leaders and spokeswomen of the women’s rights movement in the late 20th and early 21st centuries.

This event was her discussing, in conversation, her newest book The Truth Will Set You Free, But First It Will Piss You Off!, a collection of Gloria’s lifetime of quotes—powerful and wise, funny and outrageous—beautifully illustrated, and with a new introduction and essays by the feminist writer and activist herself.

This was to be an unforgettable afternoon, which I had to cancel, sadly. Our cousin-in-law, Stacey, is Warwick's Children's Book Buyer. I reached out to her when Steve firmly stated that I could not attend this event.

It turns out that there was a waiting list of 400 people for this sold out happening. I was excited to learn that two someones who really wanted to be there were going to get their chance.

Never in a million years would I dream that this amazing woman would learn of my current setback and react in such a heartwarming way. WOW. Thank you to Stacey for making a magic moment happen for me. I am truly grateful.


"I'm a realist, but I'm also a dreamer.
And I'm not just a dreamer,
I'm a hopeaholic."
-Gloria Steinem

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The Great Christmas Card Exchange...

When I received news of this holiday card exchange, I knew I had to sign up! "It's that time of the year again and we all love sending out Christmas cards for the season. So, we have decided it would be fun to have a Christmas greeting card exchange within our snail mail community. All you need to do is send out a Christmas greeting card to someone and in return be a recipient of a beautiful card yourself."

This was a first for me. I sent mine out as soon as I received my pen pal's address. Honestly, I was in such a hurry (and so excited) I didn't spend any time on the envelope, sadly.
The rules stated: no homemade greeting cards are allowed; you are only required to send out a greeting card with a message written on it to your recipient, anything else you wish to send or include is totally your choice; and lastly, I had to send in proof of my mailing (just the envelope pic with postage) to Geetika & Paula, the hostesses of this wonderful event.
Today, I received proof of Lisa's incredibly spectacular envelope. I want to start all over again and redo mine. If this is not an example of Holiday Cheer, I don't know what is. I cannot wait to find this treasure in my mailbox when it arrives. Oh what fun it is!


"I love the rebelliousness of snail mail,
and I love anything that can arrive with a postage stamp.
There's something about that person's breath and hands on the letter."
~Diane Lane

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Envelope Making...

Some days one needs to be crafty. Today, I received my new, awesome Envelope Punch Board by We R Memory Keepers.

"This is the easiest envelope maker on the market. Just punch and score. The 2-way envelope punch creates fold tabs and round corners. It is easy to create designer envelopes in dozens of sizes. Printed on the punch board are a variety of cards sizes; paper sizes; and the score lines."

I am a huge fan of mail art and this new tool is going to be amazing and so fun. I discovered it on the blog hometalk and I'm so excited I did. Oh man, the envelopes I'm going to make. Woohoo!

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My Nephelococcygia Day...

One of my favorite pastimes is nephelococcygia: the act of seeking and finding shapes in clouds.

Since it was a beautiful Fall day, and since I have to get horizontal every few hours, I decided to lay about in our front yard. Here was my view and I just had to share.
 "If you use your imagination,
you can see lots of things in the cloud formations."
-Charles M. Schulz
 "When we feel stuck, look at the sky.
The clouds remind us that everything changes."
"Clouds come floating into my life,
no longer to carry rain or usher storm,
but to add color to my sunset sky."
-Rabindranath Tagore

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Where Was Your First Flight?

When I was 7, my big brother Chuck was newly married and an officer in the Navy. When my parents learned that he would be stationed at Naval Station Rota Spain, they booked a family Christmas trip to go see him.

My First Passport Photo
This was a huge undertaking. We went over Winter Break and we were gone for an entire month. I remember when we returned, the school threatened to hold us back for missing so many days. My mom was fierce and the threat dissipated.

For many years after this trip, the European adventure defined me, even being so young. "I have been to Europe!" I would proclaim. And many of the memories are still vivid.

Looking back, I'm extremely surprised at the planning that went into this trip. We had never flown anywhere as a family. We landed in Amsterdam where we toured Anne Frank's house. We then trained to Frankfurt, Germany to hang out with a friend of my brother's who was in the Army there. On the train to Paris, our parents lost us as we ran about and my mom thought that we were certainly still on the dining car that had been disconnected (we weren't). While in the City of Light, we ogled the Eiffel Tower and I had flu symptoms in front of a sidewalk café. Oh the things children remember.

The true highlight was to live in Spain, if only for a week or so, with my big brother. He was military, through and through. "I don't care what time you get up or how long it takes for you to get ready. We leave at 0:800". Oh man, I have never forgotten that. We toured castles and walled cities. We had a true adventure, one that 50 years later I still have fond, albeit faded, memories of.

Where was your first flight?

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